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POPULAR WEDDING TRADITIONS & THEIR ORIGINS

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Is there any other dream more romantic than the idea of walking down the aisle towards true love? For some, getting married to the person you care about most in the world is a milestone achievement. 

While the institution of marriage, a concept that dates back by about 23,000 years to the first hunter-gatherers, was, until very recently, a contractual agreement in Western society, its original concept and strict gender roles are thankfully heading out the door, allowing for more freedom, and a focus on the simple desire to create a life with an individual you cherish. 

The thought of weddings makes us quite giddy, so let’s talk about some well-known wedding traditions and how they came about.

OLD EXPRESSIONS

We’ve all heard the phrase: “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue…and a silver sixpence in her shoe!” This cute Old English rhyme asks that the bride be given five objects for good luck on her special day. 

“Something old” represents the couples’ past lives, while “Something new” symbolises their happy future. “Something borrowed” refers to an object belonging to an already happily married couple, in the hopes that their good fortune will rub off. For fidelity and love, you would give the bride “Something blue”, qualities represented by that colour. Finally, the father of the bride would slip a silver sixpence in his daughter’s shoe for good luck and prosperity.

EVIL SPIRITS

It’s quite fascinating just how many wedding traditions stem from one intent: the conviction to protect the couple from any evil spirits determined to ruin their big day. A bride’s veil would disguise her from any spirits envious of her beauty and happiness. The same goes for the tradition of bridesmaids wearing the same dress, the intention of which was to have them act as the bride’s decoys to confuse the pesky spirits.

While Queen Victoria’s marriage to Prince Albert in 1840 made it fashionable to carry a bouquet of one’s favourite flowers (in her case, snowdrops), in ancient Greece and Rome, this bridal bouquet would have actually consisted of aromatic herbs such as garlic and dill to once again – you guessed it! – ward off evil spirits.

SPEAKING OF BOUQUETS

Why does the bride (and every single person at the wedding for that matter) take such a keen interest when the bouquet is tossed? In 1700s England, single women would attempt to touch the bride’s dress for luck, and in some cases, would even try to tear a piece off of it. As a diversion, the bride would toss the bouquet! Nowadays, it’s all in good fun, but wedding-goers often hope they’ll be next in line.

WHY WHITE?

The go-to colour for wedding gowns is white, a colour representing the bride’s virginity and purity. However, believe it or not, white wedding gowns only became fashionable in the Victorian era after Queen Victoria wore white to her own wedding. Before that, women simply wore the best dress they had. 

While colours still retain their own meanings, this doesn’t apply to all cultures. For example, to most Westerners, wearing a red wedding gown wouldn’t be seen as ideal. Red represents many positive qualities, such as warmth and love, but also danger, leading many to believe it would bring bad luck. On the other hand, red wedding dresses have always been a popular choice in China. Often referred to as phoenix dresses, this opulent colour represents wealth and good fortune. 

PRESERVING FOR POSTERITY

Antique aficionados amongst you might have taken an interest in the image at the beginning of this post. A curious piece known as a globe de mariée (marriage dome), which were popular in the late 19th century, this was traditionally given to a French bride and groom to commemorate their wedding day. 

It would consist of many individual pieces, including a velvet or silk cushion surrounded by all manner of symbolic additions, including birds, leaves, and mirrors, each having their own meaning. As a highly personalised display representing the couple’s journey, keepsakes would be added along the way, including photographs, locks of their children’s hair, and jewellery. All of this would then be covered by a delicate glass dome. Think of it as a high-class scrapbook! 

OF FINGERS, HANDS & RICE

Did you ever wonder why we were wedding rings on the fourth finger of our left hand? Romans believed this contained the “vein of love”, which was directly connected to the heart. And how about the expression “Tying the knot”? Celtic wedding ceremonies called this “handfasting”, where the couple’s hands were literally joined together to represent their commitment and new bond. In Hindu weddings, we can still see this happen, in a ceremony called hastmelap.

If you’ve ever gotten hit with a faceful of rice at a wedding, consider yourself lucky! Rice represents prosperity and fertility, essentially showering the couple with good fortune. A lot of people still adhere to this tradition, though it’s not uncommon to find alternatives in the form of biodegradable confetti and pieces clipped from leaves.

VALENTINE’S DAY GIFT IDEAS

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You can’t buy love – but you can buy the perfect gift! Feast your eyes on some of these items, ranging from the beautiful and stylish to the downright hilarious.

Bring a touch of rococo indulgence into your home with this impressive hand-cast statue! Finished by Toscano artisans using white bonded marble resin, it’s a replica of 18th-century French sculptor Clodion’s Zephyrus & Flora. The god of the west wind embraces the goddess of flowers, crowning her with a wreath of roses, while little angels scatter flowers all around. What better way to tell your loved one that they remind you of a fresh spring breeze?

If you wanted something a little bit more understated, then opt for this equally charming keepsake, a statue in the form of a pair of cherubs holding the letters “LOVE”. It’s created from off-white resin, while the painted white highlights give it an overall marble-life effect. A wonderful testament to your enduring love!

Get that special someone a little trinket to adorn themselves, specifically this turquoise resin heart charm cluster bracelet. Also consisting of white pearl and Tibetan silver-coloured charms, it’s a personal and pretty way of telling someone you love them!

And as for the traditional gift of roses? Don’t let your love return to the earth as all flowers must. Rather, choose this bouquet of twelve red roses. They may be artificial, but at least they’ll be a permanent reminder of what’s sure to be a memorable Valentine’s Day!

Nothing says love like the comforts of home! Who doesn’t want to get cosy and cuddle up on the sofa during a thunderstorm? Having this plump cushion behind you will only add to the experience! Large fuchsia applique lettering spells out “LOVE” on a fuchsia and white striped background. It’s 100% cotton and comes with a polyester insert, too!

Don’t forget this adorable set of two bone china mugs to enjoy your tea in! One has “You” printed on the outside, while the other has “Me”. A cute way to avoid getting your drinks mixed up!

Valentine’s Day cards are absolutely essential! Demonstrate your love by putting some effort into a carefully thought-out handwritten note. This “You Make My Heart Go Boom” card is completely blank inside for all your inspired words to enrapture and enthral.

Some humour always goes a long way. Marry comedy and practically with this tea towel. It’s soft, highly absorbent, 100% cotton, and lint-free, which makes it great for drying glassware and covering food. The amusing flour sack-style lettering reads: “Cupid and Company – Valentines – Signed Sealed & Delivered”. A lovely addition to anyone’s kitchen!

Would you like to stun your partner? In a good way, of course! Then this antique mother of pearl card case is sure to do the trick. A date letter mark for London 1897 places this piece firmly in the Victorian era. The way it shimmers is further amplified by the silver heart applique on the front. Gorgeous!

This wooden music box is cute, small (it can fit in your pocket!), and actually quite beautiful with its decorated black finish. If you turn the handle, it’ll play “You Are My Sunshine”. What’s not to love?

Dress up on the big day with these heart-shaped glasses from Emblem Eyewear! Their red tint is very attractive, and the lenses are 100% UV high impact-resistant and protected. They also come with a soft pouch to keep them safe.

Round up your ensemble with a little keyring. It’s got two charms: an entwined heart (because, of course, you’re both madly in love) and a red enamel heart (the colour of the season). You’ll be the talk of the town when you paint the town red!

USE ASTROLOGY TO GET THE PERFECT VALENTINE’S GIFT

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What do the stars have to say about how you express your love towards others? Apparently, quite a lot! When we refer to astrology, the first thing that comes to mind is a person’s Sun sign, which describes their overall personality traits. And believe it or not, you can use this form of star sleuthing to get your romantic partner the perfect gift.

ARIES

(21st March – 19th April)

You’re the headstrong ram of the zodiac, possessing an energy like no other. In love, you can be quite flirtatious, and others will have a hard time resisting your charms. It’s all about the thrill of the chase with you! But once you meet the love of your life, you’re ready to settle down and plant roots with them. If you manage to take control of your impulsive nature, your love will blossom.

Want to surprise your Aries partner with something they’d really appreciate? Plan a surprise adventure such as a romantic picnic – they will love your intrigue and spontaneity.

TAURUS

(20th April – 20th May)

The bull of the zodiac is all about creating a sense of stability and security in their lives. While you may be a bit stubborn at times, you’re incredibly loyal to your loved ones and will do anything to keep them safe. Be careful not to get too stuck in your daily routines; switch things up occasionally and your love life could take an exciting turn!

Make your Taurus partner happy by giving them something practical – maybe a gift for the home, a voucher, or even a pet!

GEMINI

(21st May – 21st June)

These twins are all over the place in the best possible way! If you’re a Gemini, you’ve got a million thoughts buzzing through your head, as well as the gift of the gab to put your ideas into words. You can be a bit flaky in your approach to love as there’s a tendency to get bored quickly, hopping onto the next exciting project. If you can learn to ground yourself (and if your partner can keep up with you), they’ll find that you’re a bubbly, kind, and sociable person.

Geminis love a good joke, so get your partner something that’ll amuse them, even if it’ll only be for a few seconds!

CANCER

(22nd June – 22nd July)

This crab has a tough exterior but is immensely soft on the inside. As a Cancer, you’re compassionate and sensitive, but also retreat into your shell when you’re hurt. A delicate touch and an understanding persona will help you become the best version of yourself!

Get your Cancer homebody a cosy item; a scented candle or a blanket will definitely be appreciated.

LEO

(23rd July – 22nd August)

The powerful lion of the zodiac can do anything it sets its mind to. You need affection from your romantic partner above all else. You’ll give them everything, but also expect the same amount in return, which is only fair! There are times your explosive outbursts can get the better of you, but it’s only because you’re a passionate person who requires emotional validation.

Leos are no stranger to enjoying the finer things in life, so a luxury gift will go down well.

VIRGO

(23rd August – 22nd September)

Virgo is the organiser of the zodiac. If you’re a Virgo, you’re a super practical individual who likes things to always be ‘just right’. Sometimes, you can get stuck inside your own melancholy thoughts, but the idea of perfecting different aspects of your life gives you purpose. You also enjoy using these talents to help others.

Get your Virgo partner something they can actually use, like some fancy stationery or even top-of-the-range home appliances.

LIBRA

(23rd September – 23rd October)

The scales of the zodiac are preoccupied with balance and harmony. As a Libra, you’re a great mediator, capable of resolving conflict in seconds, so your relationship is one that’s very level-headed – you won’t be rushing into anything without thinking about it first. While you’re a wonderful listener, it’s important to be authentic with your partner and be honest about your feelings.

Libras appreciate beauty, so delight their eyes with some unique art.

SCORPIO

(24th October – 21st November)

The solitary scorpion of the zodiac knows what you’re thinking without you having to say anything. Your Scorpio energy gives you a unique empathy that can help you understand your partner on a deeply emotional level. You’re not quick to open up, but once you do, you’re loyal and protective. When you feel like reacting out of spite, take a step back to maintain a healthy relationship!

Scorpios are attracted to the mysterious things in life, so get them something unusual.

SAGITTARIUS

(22nd November – 21st December)

If you’re the mythological archer of the zodiac, then you love to travel. You’re incredibly principled and it’s very difficult for anyone to pin you down. Your partner will have to adapt to your nervous energy that’s always pushing you to be on the move. An exciting and adventurous life awaits!

A Sagittarius loves to learn about different cultures, so a book on pretty much any subject would be ideal.

CAPRICORN

(22nd December – 19th January)

If you’re a Capricorn, it wouldn’t be a surprise if you’re already the CEO of a booming business. Your ambitions are larger than life, and you’re always looking to succeed at the next big thing. Your partner won’t be left in the dust, however; they can be the rock to your lofty foundations.

Get your Capricorn partner something that looks professional and smart – cool but serious!

AQUARIUS

(20th January – 18th February)

The water bearer of the zodiac feels it’s their solemn duty to help everyone on a grand scale. When you’re not multitasking as the manager of a large company, you can be found volunteering at a number of local charities. Luckily, your partner will be there to prevent you from getting ahead of yourself and suffering from burnout.

If you want to make an Aquarius happy on Valentine’s Day, then give to charity – We Are Not A Shop is entirely non-profit. Every single cent spent on purchasing our products will go straight to charitable causes.

PISCES

(19th February – 20th March)

The dreamy fish of the zodiac is the most difficult to define out of all the signs. As a Pisces, you’re generous to a fault, so you’ll need to set some strict boundaries. You’re also an incredibly creative person, tapping into your own form of spirituality. Your partner may not always understand you, but you’ll always have their back.

Allow a Pisces to release their artistic potential by gifting them with something creative they can lose themselves in.

THE HISTORY BEHIND OUR FAVOURITE CHRISTMAS DISHES

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What comes to mind when you think of Christmas? Presents! Decorations! Cosy family time! But let’s not forget the traditional Christmas feast. Regardless of culture, it’s a time everyone enjoys some gluttonous frivolity all around the world. But how did we come to associate certain dishes with these festivities? There’s a story behind each one!

GOOSES! GEESES!

Before turkey became popular, goose was the traditional Christmas meat. Those families who lived off the land had to choose which animals they’d eat on special occasions very carefully. Since hens provided eggs and cows gave milk, geese, which lay eggs only seasonally, were the best option.

TASTY TURKEY

Is there any other form of poultry most associated with Christmas dinner? Even though we usually associate turkey with American Thanksgiving, this bird was actually introduced to England in the 16th century. Despite being poorly adapted to the English climate, as well as typically being a dry, bland meat, turkey quickly became the meat of choice for Christmas. As healthcare improved over the years, large rural families had more mouths to feed, so the traditional goose was no longer enough. Turkeys were relatively cheap to raise and grew to a great size, so it was the perfect choice!

In a way, the turkey tradition began with the working class, as more affluent families opted for game meats to exhibit their status. By the 18th century, and thanks to being immortalised in Charles Dickens’ novella, A Christmas Carol (remember that heartwarming scene with Bob Cratchit?), the turkey became solidified in both British and American cultures.

HAMMING IT UP

Whether it’s glazed, baked, or served as cold cuts in sandwiches the day after, pork has been a staple at Christmas tables for ages. During Scandinavian Yule celebrations, a pig would be sacrificed to the Norse god of the sun, harvests, and fertility, Freyr. So too did the Ancient Romans, feasting on boar during Saturnalia.

Before explorer Sebastian Cabot supposedly introduced turkey to 16th-century England, wealthy families opted for peacock or swan to demonstrate their affluence, while everyone else had boar. However, a boar’s head placed at the centre of the table still remained a tradition, most likely a holdover from pagan rituals.

The earliest instance of a boar’s head appearing in a recipe comes from Sabina Welserin’s 1553 German cookbook, which called for the boar’s head to be boiled, placed on a grate, drenched in wine, roasted, and constantly basted with more wine. It was then served with a black sauce made from wine, cherry syrup, sugar, ginger, pepper, cloves, raisins, almonds, and cinnamon. Yummy!

SUGAR, SPICE, AND EVERYTHING NICE

Yes, we’re talking about gingerbread! When the Crusaders returned from the Middle East in the 11th century, they brought spices, sugar, almonds, and citrus fruits back with them. At the time, these ingredients were incredibly expensive and only used on special occasions. They were even used as currency at one point!

The concept of gingerbread men most likely originated from Catholic monks moulding the mixture into decorated figures of saints and religious motifs for saints’ days and festivals. As the prices of these ingredients dropped, they became more popular and were sold at county fairs.

It’s said that Queen Elizabeth I liked to have the likenesses of visiting dignitaries shaped into elaborate gingerbread figures, complete with gold leaf to showcase wealth. Ever since the Victorian era, it’s become a beloved tradition to make edible gingerbread ornaments to hang from one’s Christmas tree. And let’s not forget the classic gingerbread house! We feel like re-reading Hansel & Gretel by firelight now.

PUDDING, ANYONE?

The celebrated Christmas pudding originally began in the early 15th century as plum porridge, a rather unappetising savoury gelatinous mixture that consisted of chopped beef or mutton, vegetables, dried fruit, breadcrumbs, wine, herbs, and spices. By the 16th century, the meat and vegetables started to disappear from the recipe, eventually becoming a rich pudding served on feast days. By the 1670s, it became a Christmas staple. In fact, we still use pretty much the same recipe from the 19th century, though some still choose to add suet as a nod to the original meat concoction.

During the Yule festival, this would have been set alight to symbolise the rebirth of the sun, as well as decorated with a sprig of holly to represent everlasting life in winter. We still do this! A silver coin was also placed inside the mixture for abundance. If you want to stay true to this tradition, try finding an old sixpence!

JUST A SMALL SLICE, PLEASE

The rich Christmas fruitcake also started as plum porridge, but by the 16th century, butter was added, the oatmeal was replaced by flour, and finally eggs to hold it all together. In the Middle Ages, the original plum cake was made to celebrate Twelfth Night (5th January), when the three wise men set out to see the baby Jesus. In fact, the spices are meant to symbolise their gifts to the infant, and a sweet treat with rare almonds and dried fruit was always welcome during the colder months. It was made in advance by those knowledgeable enough not to burn the expensive ingredients in primitive, temperamental ovens, then wrapped up and preserved in alcohol for a year.

Originally, this was a time of feasting, drunkenness, and debauchery. However, in 1870, Queen Victoria banned these festivities, deeming them inappropriate. Eventually, the almonds were replaced with marzipan, and it became fashionable to decorate the cake with a snow-covered landscape. A tradition states that all the family must take turns stirring the mixture in a clockwise motion with their eyes shut while making a wish!

BÛCHE DE NOËL

Oh, you mean the Yule Christmas log? In ancient European homes, a large tree trunk was burned on the hearth for twelve days to symbolise the rebirth of the sun. Now, they’re rich chocolate sponge rolls layered with mousse or buttercream, covered in marzipan, dark brown frosting, holly leaves, red berries, and powdered sugar. The result is a delicious dessert that mimics a tree log!

WE MIGHT HAVE A SWEET TOOTH

There’s an amusing legend to how candy canes were invented. Originally white and straight, it’s said that in 1670, a choirmaster at Cologne Cathedral in Germany bent them to represent a shepherd’s staff and gave them to his charges to keep them quiet. The classic red-and-white stripes and peppermint flavouring were all added later in the 19th century.

SENDING LOVE AT CHRISTMAS

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Do people still send Christmas cards? Surely the digital age has rendered at least their physical versions obsolete with the advent of the internet, e-mail, and e-cards?

The funny thing is that Christmas cards were originally invented for precisely the same reasons: comfort and ease.

Take a trip through history as we learn about the evolution (or perhaps we should say revolution) behind a seemingly ordinary form of correspondence.

RENAISSANCE ORIGINS

Interestingly, the very first recorded use of the term “Merry Christmas” can be traced back to a letter from 1534, while what could be thought of as an early precursor to the modern Christmas card was sent to King James I of England in 1611.

This was actually a sort of large ornamental manuscript folded into panels and decorated with a rose at its centre. A message wishing the monarch Christmas and New Year greetings was written into and around the rose, and was also accompanied with four poems and a song. Quite grand by today’s standards!

A VICTORIAN IDEA

Apparently, Queen Victoria sent the first official Christmas card. However, it was Sir Henry Cole who came up with the innovative method of time-saving correspondence.

Cole was a British civil servant, credited with commissioning the first commercial, mass-produced Christmas card back in 1843. At the time, he was an assistant to Sir Rowland Hill, both of whom helped to introduce the “Penny Post”, which ensured that ordinary citizens could afford postage.

Previously, only the rich could afford to send things by post, but the penny stamp, together with industrialisation (new railways and faster trains could carry greater quantities of post for cheaper rates), meant that there was now a fair public postal system for everyone. This was an opportune development, as urbanisation meant that families started moving away from the countryside to cities, and maintaining contact with family members became even more essential.

Together with artist John Horsley, Cole came up with the idea of responding to holiday correspondence en masse (Victorian rules of etiquette stipulated that it was impolite not to reply to a letter) by designing and producing a triptych. This consisted of three panels, with the outer ones displaying acts of charity, while the centre image showed a festive gathering at a holiday dinner. The card also included a generic greeting and spaces where the sender could write their name and that of the recipient.

Cole and Horsley printed and sold 1000 of these lithographic cards for one shilling, which was quite a lot of money at the time!

A WORLDWIDE CRAZE

By 1900, the custom of sending Christmas cards had spread from England to other parts of Europe, especially Germany. English Christmas cards displayed typically English scenes, such as renditions of the nativity, robins, and snow-covered landscapes.

However, even in the late 1880s, America was already starting to get involved. Louis Prang, a Prussian printer in Boston, Massachusetts, began mass-producing cards at more affordable prices. He moved away from English scenes, instead showing things like flowers and plants.

In 1915, the Hall brothers started from humble beginnings, bought an engraving business, and created what would eventually become the famous Hallmark Cards brand! They noticed that customers wanted more space to write on in their cards than a postcard would allow, so they enlarged the format and folded it in half, creating the cards we all know today.

At the same time, in the 1910s and 20s, the fad of homemade cards started to make its way onto the scene. Prang’s cards were still expensive for some as their production consisted of lots of colours and other embellishments. As a result, and to also make an avant-garde statement against commercialism, 20th-century amateur artists chose to make their own.

These had original shapes and designs, often containing foil and ribbon. Due to their delicate nature, these cards were too fragile to be sent by post, so hand-delivering them made it an even more personal gesture.

21ST-CENTURY REVIVAL

The early 2000s saw a rise in memory-keeping, such as through scrapbooking and other such crafts. It seems that we’re resorting to older methods to help us slow down and appreciate ordinary things in such a fast-paced world.

Since digitisation has made everything so affordable, families can now print out their own photoshoots and experiment with making personalised cards using relatively cheap online services. It’s fun for the whole family!

SEND A PHYSICAL CHRISTMAS CARD THIS YEAR!

The fact remains that, even with all the gadgets and gizmos at our disposal making our lives so much simpler and more efficient, there’s a tactile nature to Christmas cards that we still cling to. For the same reasons that digital books are nowhere close to outselling their physical counterparts, we love paper! It’s personal and real, especially with the addition of handwriting. If nothing else, it shows that a person’s gone through the effort of thinking, writing, stamping, and popping it into the mailbox.

At the same time, you’ll be supporting your local postal system, which often participates in charities through the stamps and stickers they sell. And speaking of charities, We Are Not A Shop’s endeavours are altruistic in and of themselves!

If you’re still a fan of sending handwritten Christmas cards, then you should read our blog post on the advantages of maintaining your handwriting in a digital age!

Also be sure to check out the wide range of Christmas cards and tags available at We Are Not A Shop that didn’t make it into this post!

CHRISTMAS IS COMING

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As colder weather settles in, is anyone else starting to feel a little bit festive?

We know it’s early, but if you, like us, want to get organised for Christmas this year, why not start planning now and have some fun with it?

Make yourself a hot chocolate, put on some cosy socks, and embrace that holiday spirit with our Christmas countdown checklist!

BUDGET

This is a highly personal topic, so tackle it first. Focusing on quantity can be great if you’ve got kids – the stars in their eyes after they see all those presents under the Christmas tree is priceless! However, Christmas can quickly get excessive, so setting a budget can help you feel in better control.

Whatever your preference, as the actor Jim Carrey rightly said: “No holiday should manipulate you to the point where you’re going into debt just to show someone you love them.” Small, thoughtful, tasteful gifts can really make someone’s Christmas, and at least you won’t have to worry about breaking the bank.

Do your research! Some DIY homemade gifts add that extra special personal touch. If the item is store-bought, provide a gift receipt with your present in case they’ll want to change it. If you’re really not certain what someone might appreciate, a gift voucher can go a long way.

PRESENTS

Ordering Christmas gifts online has become a great way to find all sorts of holiday bargains, including Black Friday deals and Cyber Monday sales. These are great ways of stocking up on stocking fillers, too.

When you’d normally have to think ahead about international delivery times, ordering from We Are Not A Shop’s eclectic mix of items makes things so much easier. Not only would you be supporting a small local business, but you’d also get your gifts delivered in no time!

WRAPPING

You’ve bought all your presents, so now it’s time to wrap them to protect the surprise! Practice a bit of frugality by going through all the leftover wrapping supplies from last Christmas, and then stock up on whatever you need, including wrapping paper, ribbons and bows, sticky tape, and those little name cards to attach to the presents.

If a lot of your gifts consist of toys for the kids, it’s also a good idea to stock up on batteries. Nothing kills a child’s innocent wonder like realising they’ll have to wait till Boxing Day to get their new toy working.

DECORATIONS

Of course, what home would be complete without a time-honoured Christmas tree? There are so many shapes, sizes, and colours to choose from nowadays that it can get pretty overwhelming. At the end of the day, choose a tree that really speaks to your soul and that can be incorporated well into your home.

Collecting all of the charming ornaments to adorn the tree with is also part of the fun. Some fairy lights are obviously a must-have. There are some lovely baubles made from all sorts of materials, too.

Decorations don’t have to stop with the tree! Rummage around in the garage, attic, or basement for that welcoming wreath to place on your front door or mantle.

FOOD

It’s time to start thinking about the traditional Christmas feast! This part can be especially daunting to plan. Whether you’re catering or making everything from scratch yourself, you’ll save yourself a lot of hassle if you sit down right now and think up a menu. Following a theme can simplify things a lot.

There are loads of delicious recipes available online that can be prepared months in advance, frozen, and taken out the night before. Perhaps you’re the kind of family where everyone will pitch in their own dishes, which would certainly amp up the community spirit of the holidays.

A successful display of scrumptious goodies will solidify your status as the foremost Christmas day host!

GUESTS

If you’re getting expecting a swarm of family members, carve out some time to give the house a decent clean-up from top to bottom. Air out the guest bedrooms and double-check any travel arrangements. Remember that this is a crazy time and people will be rushing at the very last minute, so if you suffer from anxiety, you’re going to want to be prepared.

Finally, put on some Christmas-themed music to fill the house with some lovely winter jollity, and your ambience is all set!

TRADITIONS

Having your own unique Christmas traditions provides you with something to look forward to for the holiday season. If you have a fireplace, light it up and huddle in front of it with some blankets and hot chocolate. Or else you might want to include a Christmas movie marathon of all your personal favourites.

Family photoshoots are also quite popular, as is sending out Christmas cards, whether physical or digital, to share some love with loved ones you won’t be able to spend the day with.

If there are kids in the house, you’ve got to leave out some milk and cookies for Santa Clause. He needs to be rewarded for all his hard work throughout the night, after all!

We recently learned of an Icelandic tradition known as jolabokaflod (“Christmas book flood”), where members of the household gift each other books on Christmas Eve and read together throughout the night. How lovely is that?

So, charge up the video camera and you’re ready to enjoy yet another memorable Christmas day!

What are some Christmas traditions you maintain with your loved ones? Do you have any tips and tricks to making the period leading up to the festivities easier? Let us know in the comments section below!

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